And breaking up with your boyfriend is the last thing you want right now.
You want to believe your boyfriend is being faithful to you.
That is why you want to know for sure if he is being unfaithful.
Yet, your gut feeling is usually the first sign that your relationship is in serious danger.
You have to understand that you are not likely to catch your boyfriend in the act of cheating. Unless you sign up for the television show Cheaters, you probably won’t catch him red-handed in a hot tub or in a hotel room with another woman.
The only way to tell if your boyfriend is cheating is to watch for clues. Eventually, you will be able to tell if your boyfriend is cheating by adding up all the questionable things he does.
But you still want to know how to tell if your boyfriend is cheating for sure and don’t really know where to begin, then here are some tips to help you get started.
As I said already, one of the first signs that your boyfriend is cheating is you simply have a “gut” feeling something is going wrong. If you are feeling kind of sick and ill at ease and worrying about where he is or what he is doing, then follow your instincts.
Your first impressions are usually pretty good indicators of the situation. But you need more than just a gut feeling.
So, you will need to conduct your own investigation in a systematic way so that you can be fairly confident that he is definitely not being faithful to you. Caution: do not stalk your boyfriend. Stalking is illegal and can get you arrested.
Besides, you don’t need to secretly follow him around anyway because there are professionals that can do that for you.
Probably the most effective way to know if your boyfriend is cheating is to hire a private investigator. By doing this, you will find out for sure if he’s cheating on you.
The downside is that it will cost you hundreds or even thousands of dollars. There are cheaper ways to confirm that your boyfriend is being unfaithful to you.
Using Facebook can help you find out if your boyfriend is cheating. Take a look at his friends and who he is interacting with on his “Wall.” Many times, people “tag” their friends in pictures in order to show them in compromising situations. He may not even know that these tagged pictures are now part of his Facebook picture album.
Now, you can be really sneaky and create a fake Facebook account using someone else’s picture and try to entrap him. Then, you can friend your alter-ego with your own account and try to strike up a relationship with him by posting on his wall and sending private messages.
You may even use your alter-ego personality to try to meet up with him. If he is really cheating on you, then this is a sure fire way to catch him. If you do this right, you should be prepared however for an instant break up.
I hope I’ve helped you know how to tell if your boyfriend is cheating. Knowing for sure if your boyfriend is cheating on you is not all that complicated since social network sites like Facebook can make it so very easy.